In the morning, there is a lot of curiosity in the car: what would such a day be like with all that hustle and bustle? Upon arrival, it feels immediately good. Scanning tickets, entering, looking around. She sets her own pace. Pausing when there is something to see, then moving on. 

Monique can easily choose a nice spot, talk to her partner without shouting, take a photo without hassle. She maintains an overview, but most importantly: she pays attention to each other. “I noticed that I wasn’t in ‘organizing’ mode,” she says later. “I was just there.”